Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Domestic discipline of adult son
Spankings at this age need to focus not on severity, but duration. Plan to invest a minimum of 15 minutes giving quick, rhythmic smacks. You're not trying to kill him, you're asking him to submit to a degree of discomfort that will focus his mind, make him surrender his will, and leave his body humming. The result of a good, long spanking should be no injury, i.e. no cuts and hopefully no bruises. His buttocks should be bright crimson and slightly swollen for the next few days.
Under the best of circumstances, a spanked man passes through the pain to a place of calmness and surrender. He learns that tensing his buttocks only increases the pain--the best thing to do is to relax and surrender. His mind is calm and his body is in a state of maximum stimulation. Even a heterosexual man being spanked by a man will often sport an erection. Some will even orgasm.
In any case a long, firm, calm and affectionate spanking on his bare behind won't do him any harm. And it's bound to do the other party to the transaction a world of good ; )